MEET DR. PAMELA PASPA, YOUR LEADERSHIP COACH
I’ve Learned First Hand that Change Takes Courage
At 19, I bundled my two toddlers into a rickety metal stroller each day and walked to the Adult Education Center, determined to earn my GED. I knew it wouldn't be easy, but I also knew education was my pathway to a better future. Those years were challenging—I was alone, worked three jobs, and swapped childcare duties with my neighbor to make ends meet. She would take care of my kids while I worked, and I'd watch hers when it was her turn.
This experience taught me a powerful lesson: the strength of women supporting one another. It was the first time I realized I could genuinely depend on other women, and it inspired me to become that kind of woman for others—someone who shows up, supports others, and makes a difference.
“It was the first time I realized I could genuinely depend on other women, and it inspired me to become that kind of woman for others—someone who shows up, supports others, and makes a difference.”

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
I persevered through many years of education, including community college. At 42, I often felt like an imposter while attending classes with classmates half my age at UC Berkeley. It was during this time that I learned the importance of taking step-by-step actions. These efforts helped boost my confidence and quieted the imposter syndrome voice inside me. In the end, I graduated with honors and had the pleasure of delivering our department's commencement speech. Standing at that podium in front of thousands of attendees, with my now-grown children in the audience, I spoke about the importance of believing in oneself, perseverance, and the power of community. Nine years later, after completing a master's degree in counseling and obtaining multiple coaching certifications, I discovered my true calling while coaching, teaching, leading teams and developing leadership programs at Stanford University. Collaborating with brilliant leaders—especially women—I witnessed how challenging it can be to navigate workplace complexities and the systemic obstacles we face. I also learned that these challenges were even greater for my friends and colleagues who identify as women of color.
We women are powerful, and the systems and processes we face are challenging and dynamic. With empathy and support, we can recharge, persevere, and restructure our approach to the changes we seek.
Me and my three adult children
USC Doctorate Graduation
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“I believe that effective leadership begins within”
As a leadership coach and consultant with a doctorate in Organizational Change and Leadership, I have had the privilege of guiding over 10,000 professionals and engaging with thousands more. However, for me, the true measure of success lies not in numbers but in the profound transformations I witness. I am passionate about helping women leaders reignite their passion, rediscover joy, and infuse purpose back into their work and lives.
I believe that effective leadership begins within. My own journey has been shaped by extensive self-reflection, practical experience, and participation in immersive leadership programs. To lead others effectively, we must first master the art of self-leadership. If you are searching for a coach who blends practical insights with a deep commitment to empowering women in leadership, I invite you to partner with me. Together, we will uncover your unique strengths, navigate challenges, and cultivate an environment for the leader within you to truly shine.
Coaching Approach
Our coaching journey begins with a friendly chat to get to know each other, understand your unique needs and expectations, and agree on how we’ll work together. You’ll then set goals and we’ll create a clear path forward.
Using a variety of personalized tools and techniques, we will explore your strengths, challenges, and growth areas to build a strong foundation for your success. I’ll provide a safe, supportive space, where I’ll listen deeply and ask insightful questions that spark self-reflection and uncover meaningful solutions. Along the way, I’ll share feedback and guidance to help you gain clarity, overcome obstacles, and fine-tune your approach to both personal and professional growth. I’ll support your actionable steps to make real progress toward your goals. We’ll check in regularly to keep the momentum going, adjust as needed, and ensure accountability.
Finally, we’ll take time to reflect on your progress, celebrate your wins, and map out strategies for continued growth long after our coaching partnership wraps up.